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My "boyfriend" is driving me insane! I also put boyfriend in quotations, because we live about 2 hours apart, so he didnt want to put a label on it. He acts like weve been together for years too. hes nice, and i have liked him a while, but lately hes been getting on my nerves. we can only text and talk on the phone, so last night we were just asking eachother random questions, he asked me such a hard question, i honestly didnt want to answer to him. I am a crazy vegetarian and feel so strongly about it. so he says, would you rather have me? or eat meat the rest of your life. i said i cant answer that. then he wouldnt stop so i told him, i could never eat meat. so we kept asking questions, about an hour later, i said im tired, so hes like fine bye. normally there will be about 10 min of no dont go and little <3. so i said whats wrong? and he said he was mad about that question! i said look i couldnt give that up and im sorry. and im like how can i make it better? and hes like tell me u love me! and im like i do! so now hes fine. but last night that really bugged me! and we were friends and would always joke around saying i love you, etc. now i think he thinks its real, but honestly i dont love him yet! whenever i say it i feel guilty, and i dont know what to do here! Hes always complimenting me, and telling me songs that remind him of me, and its nice, but i feel sooo smothered! When i see his name when my cell phone rings, i feel repulsed! what do i do here?